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How Negative Thinking Destroys Your Growth (And How to Control It)

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Don't fight your mind.-train it. Replace every doubt with action, every fear with faith ,and every excuse with effort. Your thoughts shape your future ,so choose the  ones  that make you stronger . You are more powerful than the voice  that tells you  otherwise  Negative thoughts  can feel overwhelming , but  noticing them without judgement and gently redirecting your focus  really helps .Practices like mindfulness ,journaling, and surrounded yourself with positive influences  make a big difference  Negative thoughts are part of human  nature they shouldn't and can't be stopped, just controlled Keep working  on loving yourself .We can heal ourselves  Your love can rebuild you Someone said something that really hit home for me...he said "the reason why you keep looking for love out there is because you can't find  it with yourself  You will be the only  constant in your life. Everyone will leave at some point...
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How to Stay Positive in Difficult Times

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 I'm not a psychologist , but our mind are prone to confirmation bias ,I feel , through my experience .I could be wrong ,but I feel when  we are in a negative space ,we start reviewing  negative experiences  in our heads and reading negativity in everything.What is funny is, when we are in good mood ,even negative things appear to be  inconsequential  and we laugh them off. Your focus=Your reality . Reframing positivity and practicing gratitude changes the default setting to a more positive one over time. By nature , people tend to think negatively ,So you have to work  deliberately harder if you quest  positivity and satisfaction  I find that if you have a rhythm in your life , have enough energy ,and write down your feelings ,it will give you more positivity  Accepting the Situation Without Losing Hope                       Acceptance, not surrender At 44 years old I learned tha...
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