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  When we overcome our shortcomings and become better and more capable than before, then many experiences happen which make us realize the truth. As we start knowing our mind, we start realizing the truth and our thoughts automatically start moving in the right direction. For this, we just need to work hard on ourselves like an athlete and make ourselves more capable than before, our thoughts will change automatically. 1. Understanding Empathy: Key to Personal Growth                                                                                                                             Self-awareness unlocks growth. My friend once said to me everyone is really a baby wanting...

How Mindfulness Alters the Emotional Patterns in Our Brain

 Introduction 

Mindfulness or awareness is a quality of the soul that constantly observes the thoughts arising in the mind. However, to observe these thoughts, the soul must use the mind itself. This means observing the thoughts arising in the mind and knowing whether they are right or wrong. Accepting the right and rejecting the wrong is awareness.

Mindfulness means living in the present moment with full awareness and consciousness. It means observing and accepting with full awareness whatever you are doing, thinking, or feeling, without any prejudgment or reaction.

Mindfulness practice has tremendous potential for increasing well-being , overcoming emotional suffering and improving communication.Mindfullness meditation , when applied to the mind , when we learn  how to meditate on our anxiety , fear, depression or anger is one of the  most exciting  recent developments in psychotherapy.

The Power of Ten Minutes: Daily Meditation Insights”

             A calm mind creates a calm life.

Since doing a ten minutes meditation practice every day  for a year I can see several benefits .Less emotional reactivity ,more space and distance from thoughts and stories about myself.This  has lead me to be more engaged in my life.

A clear calm mind  is what everybody wants  and I am grateful  for having it. I feel utmost silence in my mind such that I can focus  on anything  effectively .I feel  a gentle sensation  throughout my body as a result of  deep meditation.I  have attained control  over my mind  and I allow  only positive thoughts  to enter in. My habits are uplifted my mood and I am happy  about this.

The Lasting Impact of Mindfulness on Emotional Health

                Gentle mind, strong heart

Excercise & working out everyday helped me build the most resilient mind I've ever had.I've never felt  this good and this clear minded  in my life .I literally wake up every day and feel good and happy.This all stems  from working out , fasting , eating healthy and staying active 

“It’s fascinating to me that science is finding so much evidence for a teaching from 2,500 years ago—one that was written for spiritual purposes long before scientific research even existed.”

The power of mindfulness and simply living in the present is so powerful ! It has helped heal from being lebelled with numerous mental health issues,drug addiction ,and living much of life as my own worst enemy.I am now 46 years old ,am fully  present for the first time  in my life for the first time in my life ,and am in love with life as well as myself ! I meditate every day ,do yoga,, journal,, exercise and spend time with nature every day.I limit my screen time , don't watch the news and I am no longer anxious or depressed as I no longer live in the past or worry about the future ! it's  never too late to change.

The Role of Mindfulness in Emotional Balance

                         Find your calm

Mindfulness plays a vital role in personal management because it helps one live in the present moment with full awareness and attention. This aids in stress management, better decision-making, and time management.Mindfulness means living in the present moment with full awareness and consciousness. It means observing and accepting with full awareness whatever you are doing, thinking, or feeling, without any prejudgment or reaction.

The core of mindfulness practice is non-judgmental awareness. This simply means accepting present-moment experiences—thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations, and external events—as they are, and paying attention to them without categorizing or evaluating them as good or bad, right or wrong. It's an attitude in which we simply observe our experiences, not judging them.

What Is Mindfulness and How It Affects Your Emotional Pattern

             Patterns change with awareness.

When you change the way you see the world ,the world begins to change.

Sometimes we are responsible for something not because we are to blame ,but because we are the only once who can change it.

Becoming emotionally intelligent doesn't mean suppressing or ignoring my emotions.It means  developing the ability to calm myself down by processing & releasing negative emotions.After an emotional  response arises , practices like deep breathing  & writing a short forgiveness letter help me relax and regain balance.This allows me to communicate my feelings in a calm &  beneficial way.Emotional intelligence is not the absence of emotion, but rather the skillful  management  of it, transforming  emotional experience into opportunities .This improves my ability to  communicate with clarity , transparency & honesty fostering deeper connection with others .

How Consistent Mindfulness Practice Transforms Emotional Well-Being


                    Balance your inner world

Some scholar once said ,Be mindful as if your life depends on it.I think it makes sense

“You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find great strength.”

 Marcus Aurelius

Our subconscious mind is a tape , whatever in that tape it will play out.So, what if in that tape is trauma or bad experience or habit!!!!? That's why  being mindful and aware of your present moment will stop that tape from  playing out and then we free ourselves. It works 100%

Being still is the smartest thing I've ever done 

Investing time in activities ,or better say,non activity like meditation has been some of the most profound and fulfilling  moments in my life , definitely life changing.

Mindfulness as a Tool for Long-Term Emotional Balance

            Balance begins with awareness.

I've only recently learned to tell myself,"I'm all up in my feelings  right now.I'd better not respond  to this until  I feel calmer."It's really helping.

Regulating your emotions can also be taking time out to be alone  in order to figure out what your feeling

Observe is such a good word, to observe one must be in the moment .If I am the moment can't be thinking about all the other offences that can add fuel to the trigger make sense.

I enjoy the peace and quiet so much now.I can literally hear myself asking now and it is  making you feel xyz....how do you want to react? Because the trigger /person most likely didn't mean to trigger xyz... What is worth it right now what will take up more energy ? fighting and accepting.

Silence is power , Keep secrets, personal  things and finances to yourself.When people don't know anything about you, they have zero chance of manipulating or controlling you. Absolutely priceless in this dangerous world, isn't  it.Great stuff.

Sustaining Emotional Resilience Through Mindfulness

          Mindfulness turns pain into power.

I think the key of success  in mindfulness is to learn how to concentrate better.I think the idea of meditation turns a lot of people off to mindfulness because they feel they'll have a hard time  learning how to meditate .Consentrate on the present moment is the key.Because the ego is constantly unsatisfied.It always wants more and is focused on ways it can get it.The ego can not  accept the present moment as it is. That's where  mindfulness comes in.You let those thoughts and feelings come and go and live mindfully in the present moment.Focus on making the here and now the best experience  possible.

4 challanges 1 Distractability 2 Loneliness 3 Negative self talk/depression 4 Lack of meaning purpose of life 4 pillers  1 Awareness 2 connection 3 Insight 4 purpose

Can Mindfulness Help Everyone?

          Mindfulness benefits every mind.

Meditation is a mental exercise that involves relaxation, focus, and awareness. Just as physical exercise works for the body, meditation is an exercise for the mind. This practice is typically performed individually, sitting in a quiet position with eyes closed. Meditation is a practice in which a person uses techniques, such as mindfulness, to focus on a specific object, thought, or activity to increase focus and awareness. Practicing meditation provides mental clarity and emotional calm and stability. Meditation helps one relax in a stressful lifestyle. Often, when our senses become dulled, meditation helps us increase awareness. Meditation brings peace of mind, relieves stress, fosters positive thoughts, and improves thinking. Meditation is suitable for every personality and lifestyle and can be practiced by anyone. Meditation is adaptable to a variety of personalities and lifestyles. Practicing it offers the opportunity to improve both physical and emotional health.  People who meditate have the opportunity to improve their physical health as well as emotional health through its practice.

Conclusion 

Thinking is all were taught in school, it's supposed to be what helps us to survive , get job,and to procreate .But thinking doesn't lead to freedom and happiness.Mindfulness.can give you the strength to free yourself from the bonds of the world ,relax or to look  deeply at your suffering and to understand it's origins.Mindfulness isca lamp  of awareness that when shined onto something ,reveals the essence of that object.

Train your mind with mindfulness, your heart and lungs with cardio , your ligaments and tendons with static ,and dynamic stretching ,and your muscles and bones with weights 

Comments

  1. Excellent Article Ratika, great connection between how we act given our state dictated by out thoughts and emotions

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    1. Yes a lot of people have very toxic mindset which is harmful for ourselves and people around us

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    2. It's a beautiful article. Very well written and speaks to the body, soul and spirit.

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    3. Thanks for the appreciation

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  2. Very well written article guiding readers about the importance of our thoughts, inner peace and soul well being.It give us clarity about stress free living and how one can achieve stable mind state.

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    1. Hapiness and sadness are like the two sides of the same coin .But peace lies in that place where there is no judgement where you let go of the idea of good and bad and where the only thing that matters is dwelling in the present as it is.

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  3. This was such a refreshing read, Ritika! I particularly resonated with your point about the 'subconscious tape.' It’s so true that our past traumas can play on loop if we aren't present enough to hit the stop button. I’ve found that even just 10 minutes of stillness, as you mentioned, acts as a 'system reset' for that tape. Have you found any specific mindfulness prompts that help you most when you feel a 'negative tape' starting to play?

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    1. By praying god,you will get positive thoughts and beautiful life.Peay always have strong faith god.If God with us,then there is no worry .

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  4. Damn good thought

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  5. Impressive and informative Blog - I found it useful

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  6. I would like to emphasize that it is a very important article to read. Have a nice weekend!

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  7. Excellent article. Beautiful thoughts for having a beautiful mind and leading a beautiful life.

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    1. Practice of giving direction to mind can help lot of giving a perfect shape to them.

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  8. Mindfulness connects soul to heart, each receiving awareness as a state of existence, the heart reciprocates to the content of purity and innocence, the soul nourishes the emotional content. Awareness brings knowledge if all is well and to be accepted without conjecture. Rationale is required for all to settle well.

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    1. Be mindful as if ur life depends on it.I think it makes sense.

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  9. Mindfulness isn’t about stopping thoughts, it’s about meeting them early with awareness and intention.
    Thanks so much Ritika Gupta

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    1. The goal of mindfulness is simply observe and let it go ..... without judgement . Thoughts are neither Negative and Positive they just are

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  10. Great Learning

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  11. Beautifully articulated. The way you explain mindfulness—not as emotion suppression but as conscious awareness and response—really stands out. This piece bridges lived experience with neuroscience in a very grounded way. A reminder that emotional strength comes from understanding, not control. Truly insightful.

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    1. Yes, meditation can rewire the brain by promoting changes in neural pathways and enhancing areas related to focus, emotion regulation, and self-awareness

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  13. Wow, I loved reading this blog, so helpful.

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  14. Nice article, amazing fantastic , don't have words for such a wonderful article

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  15. Great article

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  16. Thanks 🙏 for sharing such a detailed and insightful about mindfulness. I can resonate very well as I began my mindfulness journey 2 years ago, and it has led to a number of benefits. Of which the most beneficial is the ability to pause, be a 3rd party observer to our difficult thoughts (not get pulled along), be aware of what truly creates the trigger and in the process gain insights to myself. It has thus led me to have the valuable tool kit to help my clients in the session and I have also embarked in getting certification for Mindfulness Oriented Counselling Psychotherapy and Accetpance commitment therapy :)

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    1. It's great that you joined mindful-oriented counseling, which made it easier for you to understand your clients. Thanks for sharing.

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  17. Nice ritika keep growing and writing

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  18. Ritika, this is a generous and honest reflection. You describe real shifts many people long for. Less reactivity, more space, more care for the body, and a deeper appreciation of life. That matters, and it is not small.

    I would gently add one nuance that can deepen what you already describe. Mindfulness is not so much about judging thoughts as right or wrong, or allowing only positive thoughts in. It is about seeing clearly how thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations arise and pass away on their own. When this is seen directly, balance grows naturally. Not because we control the mind, but because we understand its nature.

    What I appreciate most in your post is the lived experience. The combination of meditation, movement, nature, and simplicity clearly brought stability back into your system. At the same time, the deeper freedom comes when even silence, joy, fear, or restlessness are met in the same way. With equanimity. No pushing, no clinging. Just observation.

    Your story shows something important. Mindfulness is not an escape from life, but a way to meet life without being owned by it. When awareness is steady, emotions do not disappear, but they stop running the show. That is where emotional intelligence becomes embodied, not managed.

    Thank you for sharing this openly. It will resonate with people who are tired of fixing themselves and ready to understand themselves instead.

    Peter Weiss
    Founder of MindKaizen

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    1. Mindfulness is so valuable .It is such a simple practice ,yet so few people will slow down long enough to allow themselves to breathe and be present with their body and emotions.
      Let's be people who prioritize our own well-being and practice presence with ourselves.Maybe the world could heal. If we took the time to unlearn our false coping methods of busy-ness and distraction from our inner life.

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  19. Ultimately, we have the power to decide what to focus on. If we cho0ose the positive, we will attract positive things.

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  20. Ultimately, we have the power to decide what to focus on. If we cho0ose the positive, we will attract positive things.

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    1. Yes I've seen this happen countless times .All for the good .All for the positive

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  21. Wise words....

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  22. There’s really a lot to learn from the mind. Thank you for taking the time to share this.

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    1. Positive attitude create positive mindset ! So I always try to think positive all the time

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  23. Wise words and very interesting article

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  24. This is really inspiring. It’s a great reminder that taking just a few minutes to be still can totally change your mindset and your day.

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  25. This is just what I needed right now! I love the 10 minute meditation idea. I try and act like I don't have time to meditate but I definitely have 10 minutes. Thanks!

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    1. Ohh that's very good I wish you serenity and inner peace as you relax and focus

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  26. What strikes me most about this comprehensive look at mindfulness is the profound realization that we are not our thoughts, but rather the observer of them. In 2026, where the "subconscious tape" of past trauma and digital noise threatens to play on a loop, your commitment to being "mentally active but internally still" is the ultimate competitive advantage. I’ve found that the true power of mindfulness lies in that split-second gap between a trigger and a response; it is in that silence where we reclaim our agency and stop being victims of our own emotional patterns. By integrating physical resilience through exercise with the spiritual clarity of meditation, you aren't just "surviving" the modern world—you are mastering it. This holistic approach proves that while school taught us how to think, it is the practice of awareness that teaches us how to live, allowing us to shine the "lamp of awareness" on our suffering until it dissolves into insight.

    "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." — Viktor E. Frankl

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    1. My top priority in life is to maintain & cultivate my inner peace.I achieve this daily by living a healthy mindful style.. Through consistent , loving routines,I nurture my body ,mind & spirit.I honor my commitment to inner peace each day & feel grateful for the harmony I create in my life.. Reaching my daily health goals is essential to cultivating lasting inner peace & happiness.Like a tree rooted deeply in the earth while reaching towards the sky.,I ground myself in daily practices that nourish and strengthen my inner self.

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